Feeding the wolves, don’t you know better?

We often fall into traps. Some traps are put there by others, and some of them are put there by ourselves. And I think most people get stuck in the same traps over and over, forming a circle of negativity or struggle that we constantly have to try and get out of. Guilty.

One solution is to stop feeding into it all, persons, places, or things. Why keep giving strength to all the negative stuff, or stuff that doesn’t help us progress? For example, in my situation, do I continue to give into the dark abyss of emotions such as depression, sadness, anger, or anything like that, giving power to those who wronged me? Or do I take it all in, turn it into something positive, then release it back out to the world?

You know the saying, what goes around comes around. If someone has wronged you, or done anything to you, fine. I won’t say not to feel hurt or grieve, we’re human. But, remember that any of the negative, bad things that are done to you, or if anyone causes you stress or grief, it WILL be sent back to the other person (even worse at times).

Sometimes you have to take your hits, that’s life. But after the wounds heal, sit back and let fate handle it. Worry about you, and you alone. If you focus on other things, on other people, you’ll lose site of your own life. Don’t fall into that trap…

“Actions are the seed of fate deeds grow into destiny.” – Harry S Truman

Now Playing: “Shoot It Out” by 10 Years

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2 thoughts on “Feeding the wolves, don’t you know better?

  1. Your post really got me to thinking.
    Do you really believe that for all the things they have wronged you it will come back?
    I kept waiting for that to happen. Still do. I think when you are able to truly be happy then thats when the person(s) who have wronged you get it back to them.
    Because I believe when they see you truly happy is when they lose. They couldn’t defeat you. And then they end up with all their negative engergy on them.
    Just thoughts I thought while reading 🙂

    -Marie

    • Thanks for the comment, Lost..

      You do reap what you sow. With every action, there’s a reaction. So that means if someone wronged you, yes, THEY will need to pay the consequences. Of course it hurts you, but it will hurt them as well in the long run. I don’t think anyone is immune to that.

      Karma, or whatever you want to call it, will collect. It may not be today, a week, hell even a year, but it will collect. Best thing to do is to not worry about it, and let it happen.

      I agree with you, seeing you moving on and happy is a great way to get back at someone. And all you did was dust yourself off and improve your life. It eats people up to see that sometimes.

      Thanks again!

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