When a relationship is ending, or has ended, we never think about new beginnings. All we focus on is endings. Even when the deal is sealed, and the relationship is truly over, new beginnings are the LAST thing on our mind.
I was one of those people. I couldn’t see anything past the hurt and betrayal. I was so focused on all the negatives, the rejection, the confusion, just trying to make sense of a situation that DIDN’T make any sense. But now…
Sometimes, things have to die in order to live again. Just look at nature. The trees, plants, etc, all lose leaves and become barren when it becomes cold. Stripped of everything, dormant and life at a stand still until the sun shines again and gives them NEW life.
We sometimes are just like those barren trees, stripped. Everything taken from us. But know that once the cold breaks, and the sun shines, there will be new life. SO instead of looking at things as an end, let’s look at things as new beginnings.
“We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. The old skin has to be shed before the new one can come”. – Joseph Campbell
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